Day 105: I missed the water
Location: Newport News, VA
Miles Driven: 334
Total Miles: 25,006
I left Cary after 10AM and began to head east towards the North Carolinian coast. I was headed towards the Outer Banks area (a place I had visited for the first time back in June), but I was going to a northern section of the Outer Banks to a city called Duck.
It was after 4PM when I met up with friends Frances and Gary at their beach house. From their deck were some outstanding views of the ocean:
It was hard to not just lounge on the deck for the next several hours and listen to/watch the ocean. The cool breeze from the water made the air much more comfortable than I had found back in Raleigh.
A little after 5PM, we all went to dinner at a local cafe. More outstanding food.
After dinner, we headed to the other side of the land to go walk by Albemarle Sound. There was a boardwalk right above the water and our timing worked out well…sunset was slowly approaching.
Great views by the Sound.
We returned to the house along the beach, and I was able to snap a few more pictures of the water before I got back on the road.
Thanks again to my friends in the Outer Banks for a nice break in the driving (and for the delicious dinner). I was very glad to be back by some water again. The last time I was near any major bodies of water was back in Alaska.
I got back in the car and headed north toward Newport News, revisiting my buddy Chris I saw here back in early June. Chris and I hung out in his backyard for several hours, sitting by a fire. Chris was suprised it was my first legit “campfire” for this whole trip.
Great to hang out with a good friend once more. This is probably the last time I’ll get to hang out with Chris before heading overseas in January, so I’m lucky to have this chance again. Big excitement for Chris coming up…he has a baby on the way this coming December. At the very least, I should be able to see some pictures before I head out.
Come Sunday, I’ll head north to Maryland where I’ll spend a stretch of a few days visiting with some friends one last time in the area I used to live. Most of the drives from this point forward should be fairly quick (in the neighborhood of three hours or less). No, I’m not sick of driving, but a few less hours in the car would probably do my legs and lower back a favor.
joe
P.S. In other news, you’ll notice above I just barely surpassed the 25,000 mile mark with today’s driving. Before I set out on the trip, that was a higher estimate of the ground I’d cover (good call, Melissa). Crazy
Days 101-104: A baby, food, and some stars
Location: Raleigh/Cary, NC
I was, indeed, a bum for the better part of this past week, but I managed to do a few things while I was in the Raleigh/Cary area. Thanks to Saba and Aaron for hosting me in their house…I had a great time. The whole time I was there I had a great weather, but it was indeed strange to see some leaves start to change color while it was 90 degrees out.
Speaking of the heat, I think I burned the bottoms of my feet walking out in the grass. Sam apparently had things right – his last day there, the two of us went outside to get some exercise (we threw my medicine ball around). As he put on his shoes to go out, I told him, “You don’t need shoes, Sam, we’re just going out on the grass.” He replied, “Yea, I’m not a hippie, though.” Burn. But we were fine in Saba’s backyard in the thick green grass. My issue came later in the week when I walked to the park behind the house, where the grass was not regularly watered and was brown, dry, and dying. Running/walking on that grass apparently was a bit too much for the bottom of my feet (right below the toes). When I returned to the house, I had a hard time walking. Very peculiar. Turns out that North Carolina heat and dry grass do not mix well for bare feet. Lesson learned.
But that was barely a blip on my radar of bad luck for this trip. No problems, and I continued to enjoy my stay in the fine state of North Carolina.
On one afternoon, I took a drive to the Jordan Lake area, which was about 45 minutes away. They had a few hiking trails through the forest that seemed worth checking out, and it was not disappointing. Walking in the woods was especially nice given how hot it had been, as the canopy of trees made the air much cooler than it really was.
I hiked for about three miles in the woods. I could have gone longer, but I seemed to have an uncanny knack that day for running into spider webs with my face (fairly unpleasant), plus I was able to get out of there shortly before it started to rain.
I hung out with Jen for my last few days in the area, and we had a good time checking out some local eateries (by the way, if you are in the Raleigh area, “Vivace” is a great restaurant) and relaxing. One of the nights Jen cooked up a great Tuna steak dinner. Absolutely delicious.
On Friday night, the two of us drove out to Chapel Hill where we were going to catch a couple shows at the Morehead Planetarium on the campus of UNC. I haven’t been to a planetarium in what seemed like ages, and Jen hadn’t since grade school, so it was perfect timing.
The sundial had a couple sayings written on the outer edge of the circle, one of which I particularly enjoyed: “It is always morning somewhere in the world.” I suppose it’s a good saying to remember on those neverending days that seem a bit dismal.
I mentioned Jen and I were there to catch a couple planetarium shows. The first one was a movie presentation called “Black Holes: Journey to the Unknown.” Great show. It explained the history of our understanding of black holes, as well as demonstrating with cool effects how black holes work. I especially liked how the film demonstrated the gravitational lensing effect of black holes (e.g. a black hole’s gravitational pull is so strong that it would bend the background light if one passed in our line of sight, like a lens). Here’s a picture from greatians.com to demonstrate:
The next planetarium show we caught was called “Carolina Skies.” That show explained the various constellations and stars one would see looking up at the summer sky from the Chapel Hill area, and was not a movie, but rather presented live by someone from the planetarium (I imagine she was an astronomy student…what a cool perk of studying at UNC). It was great to get a refresher on the night sky and re-learn some of the constellations (my memory has gotten hazy over the years). Another good show.
Friday was my last full day in the area, as the plan for Saturday would be to get to Newport News, VA before the end of the day. Thanks to Saba, Aaron (and little Eli), and Jen for such a great time.
joe
Little respite
Location: Raleigh, NC
As much as I would like to keep the blog updated each day with some exciting and scenic pictures, I’ve taken the past few days here in Raleigh to relax and unwind for a bit. Hanging with Sam, Mrs. T, Jen, Saba, and Aaron, watching movies, prepping for future trips, and napping is how I’ve spent the majority of my time here. And I’ve been quite content in that routine.
But soon the trip will continue, as I’ll slowly make my way into Virginia and Maryland. The plan is to visit some of the same people I got to see earlier in the summer (some in different areas), and hopefully some new landmarks as I’ll try to take some new routes into these areas. That will begin Saturday, and I’ll be sure to get a new post up before then as I wrap up my time in North Carolina.
Until then, thanks to everyone for the nice comments as the roadtrip winds down. It’s kind of sad, after spending over 100 incredible days seeing some of the sights and the people that make this country (and our neighbor to the north) beautiful. But it couldn’t last forever…especially given my unemployed status. How lucky I am, though, to have seen all I’ve seen.
Keep on truckin’
joe
Days 99 and 100: Comfortable in Carolina
Location: Raleigh, NC
Miles Driven: ~470
Total Miles: ~24,160
In a clean, reorganized car, I left Acworth on Sunday morning to head north towards North Carolina. It was tough saying goodbye to the “family” back in Georgia, but I know there will be another chance to meet up down the road, even if it’s not in the foreseeable future.
GoogleMaps said my drive to Raleigh would be about six hours. Relatively speaking, that’s not a great distance to travel in terms of this trip. It was a pleasant and uneventful drive. Had clear skies the whole way, too.
The timing of my arrivial in Raleigh was pretty fortuitious. Family friends Saba and Aaron had their child just last about 10 days ago (last I saw them, Saba was a few months away from delivery). I was happy to meet Eli Jacob. Very cute kid.
The timing of my arrival worked in another way, as well. Saba’s brother, and my friend, Sam, was in town along with his mom. Great to see all these friendly faces once again. I last saw Sam in NJ, and it’s been several months since I saw his mom.
I was able to spend a couple hours hanging out with Eli and the family before heading out to dinner with their friend Jen, who I had last seen at Saba and Aaron’s wedding back in 2007. I happily introduced her to korean bbq. Man, I’ve been eating far too well on this second east coast leg of the trip. Great meal and great company.
That brings us to Day 100 of this roadtrip. Wow, hard to believe it came up so fast. When I originally planned this trip, I figured it would be over and done with by Day 90. But here I am at the century mark, and everything is still going great.
Was able to spend a larger portion of the day being lazy, as well as taking pictures of Eli once again.
What a way to celebrate Day 100 – hanging out with the newborn, and then getting to eat some nice home-cooked meals. There were hotdogs, hamburgers, cake, and Arabic pizza:
Looking forward to spending the next few days here in Raleigh with friends.
Only about 12 or so days remain in this trip. The first 100 have been nothing short of spectacular, and I’m optimistic we’ll be able to hold that line for the remainder of this journey.
joe
Day 98: Sweet southern comfort
Location: Acworth, GA
My final day in my home in Georgia was a great one. Started the day off with the family by hiking at Kennesaw Mountain National Battlefield. I’ve been to the battlefield a couple times in the past, but have only hiked up the mountain once before.
We arrived at the battlefield little after 9AM, and there was a pretty big crowd there. Everyone, including ourselves, were trying to beat the afternoon heat.
We started the hike up the mountain. I remember it being a bit strenuous for me the last time, but this time I fared a little better given all the hiking I’ve done this past summer, especially in some higher-altitude atmospheres. This allowed me to pop ahead of the group and take some action shots.
Great day for a hike. Not too hot, and there was a nice breeze blowing through the trees.
After a little time at the peak, we started to work our way back down the mountain. Caught some deer in the woods along the way:
Finished the hike and were back in the car around 11AM. On the way back home, we picked up some authentic southern biscuits. I ordered a spicy sausage one. I never had a biscuit in the six months I lived here, so I looked forward to this staple of Southern breakfasts. It lived up to the hype.
After this delicious breakfast, I spent a large portion of the afternoon and evening cleaning out the car. My goal was to reorganize/consolidate a lot of the random things floating around, in addition to junking items I no longer needed.

A collection of books/magazines/pamphlets I started with and acquired along the way. P.S. Ashley - the National Park book has been invaluable. Thanks
I junked the papers/magazines I didn’t need anymore, and then got to work on the other items in the car.
And before you say anything, yes, I realize that there’s still a lot more to this journey before the trip ends. However, from this point forward I won’t be needing to rely on the car for anything but driving. I’ll have places to stay everywhere I go now, so that precludes the need for sleeping in the car/camping, which means I can stow my neck pillow/blankets/tent in the back of the trunk. In addition, getting things reorganized now will make it easier to empty out when I’m back in NY when Colleen will take over ownership of the car.

That's most of everything inside the car, plus my recently re-acquired winter floormats. Thanks, John
So after emptying everything out, I set up my tent and tarp to make sure they were all dry, as they will probably be put away for a long time when I’m back in NY. I then went down to the car wash, got the car cleaned up, and vacuumed the interior. I have yet to get everything back inside the car, but by the time I leave Sunday morning, I’ll have a bit more space to work with.
The folks here prepared a special last dinner for me. I had never tried the southern specialty “chicken and waffles” (yes, you heard correct). And I got to try the homemade version….so delicious. To those not familiar, it’s waffles with syrup, topped with chicken, which is then topped with gravy. I know, it might not sound the most appetizing, but it seriously is very good. Here, John demonstrates how it all goes together:
Definitely a great final dinner in Georgia. I got to spend the rest of the evening just hanging out at the house with the family. Couldn’t think of a better way to end my time here.
Thanks again to all my friends and family here in Georgia which has made my return here better than I could have imagined.
Sunday, I hit the road for North Carolina, and another few days respite.
joe
Days 95-97: From vagabond to bum
Location: Acworth, GA
I’ve been quite spoiled being back home in Georgia. In the past few days I’ve been here, the most driving I’ve done in one day is 50 miles, and the rest of the time I get to relax and bum around in an air-conditioned house. It’s so great to be back here.
The focus of my time here has been catching up with some friends. I’ve played in a work softball game (psst… don’t tell them I don’t work there anymore), and enjoyed some dinners and nights out in Atlanta. Can’t argue with being able to stay indoors at times and play videogames, as well.
I’m also slowly getting the car cleaned up and re-organized once again. My windshield was replaced on Wednesday afternoon, and I didn’t even have to drive anywhere. A guy from a local shop just showed up with his tools and in 45 minutes I had a brand new windshield installed at zero cost to me. I joke with my sister, Colleen, to whom I’ll be selling the car to when this trip is over – man, she’ll be getting her money’s worth…new headlights, new tires (acquired back in Oregon), and now a new windshield (not to mention bonus items like XM radio, GPS, inverter, and sanitizing wipes). I’ll be sure to get a picture up of the spruced-up car soon.
I have one more day in this area, Saturday, and then on Sunday morning I will make my way north towards North Carolina to spend a few days. My friend John arrived late tonight, so looking forward to hanging with him and the rest of my foster family here in the time remaining.

With my buddy Rufus at the Tapas bar. Rufus is a native of my area in New York, but didn't get to know him until I first moved to Georgia
Happy Labor Day to all my friends out there. Enjoy the last few minutes of summer while you can; rest assured, I will try my best to do the same.
joe
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